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Monday, March 27, 2017
Ungrateful People: How To Spot Them
Ungrateful People
How To Spot Them and Rid Yourself of Them
In short, ungrateful people lack empathy. They cannot put themselves in your shoes (or the shoes of any kind person) so they cannot appreciate the things you do for them. Your best intentions and kindest actions don't matter at all to ungrateful people who will feign gratitude while their true feelings are right below the surface. While ingratitude is not the worst sin in the world, it is often a sign of a bigger personality issue so it should not be ignored. Below is the playbook for your standard ungrateful:
Traits of An Ungrateful:
-Rarely say "thank you" without being prompted
-Rarely seem truly happy
-Complain allot, especially about trivial things
-Seem entitled (just another form of ungrateful) or act as though you owe them
-Feel constantly underappreciated
-"Keeps tabs" on how much or little people do for them
-Bad manners in general
Mind Games Ungrateful's Play
-Ungrateful people will try to discount the things you do by saying things like, "It's not like it cost allot, you had a coupon," or "It's not a big deal, you loaned me 200 bucks, not a million.
-When confronted about their behavior they often act like it is not a big deal or make excuses like, "I forgot to say thank you."
-Ungrateful's will often accuse you of never doing anything for them.
-Some ungrateful's will change their attitude when you confront them on their behavior but will repeat the same ungrateful behavior the next time you do things for them.
How to Spot An Ungrateful: It is fairly easy to spot ungrateful people since they tend to complain allot and rarely seem truly happy. The thing to remember is that ungrateful people often seek ways to turn a situation negative or to not be grateful. They are the type of people who can put a negative spin on the kindest words or nicest gift.
How to Rid Yourself of Them: Often ungrateful people suffer from a larger personality or mental health issue. If you have to deal with an ungrateful it may be wise to suggest spiritual or mental help. You may also need this help to cope or get the strength to walk away if it is an unhealthy relationship.
Have I forgot something? Let me know! Comment down below and thanks for reading!
Wednesday, March 15, 2017
The Future I Could Have Had
March 15, 2017
My mother was the latest person to tell me that WalMart has a DreamLove clothing line. She thought I was behind it as did several of my friends and random people who watch my career. After all, didn't I grow a mildly successful brand with little help and amongst the constant doubters. Yes, that was me. I lived DreamLoveRadio for years. My sustenance was my art, my writing and my blog. It was lovely but, something changed. I heard those sweet little words, "we would like to offer you the job." I put away my pencils, paper and laptop and headed off to the corporate world. It was a new and scary world but, with my natural professionalism it was easy to be successful. I was still determined to carve out time for my writing. Then my grandmother died. I threw myself into work. Not the work that mattered but, the corporate work that took so much and gave so little back. That DreamLove line was a bitter reminder of the future I forfeited when I started working hard but, in the wrong direction. How many times have I given the advice to, "work hard in the right direction." Yet, I began building my life in the wrong direction. I don't want to do that anymore! The passion within me still burns bright. I can't get back the future I could have had. I wouldn't even want it. I am determined to work towards something much better than the future I could have had.
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Dollar Tree and Target Haul
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